Getting
Ready for the RA Position: Preparing the Foundation for Community Building
By Glenda Griffith,
Director of Residence Life, Saint Francis University
So you are
going to be a resident assistant. Welcome to a community of learners who
are as diverse as the global community, who possess a myriad of individual
skills and talents and who use their differences to come together in a
commitment to make residence living a positive learning experience.
The summer
is a wonderful time for you to reflect on what this new role will be in
your life. While the pre-school training program and on-going staff developments
will teach you what you need to know to be an outstanding RA, you can
begin the preparation now for your role. Take time over the summer to
think about your position, identify what you hope to accomplish and prepare
anything you can ahead of time. Anything you can do over the summer will
give you that much more time once school begins to spend with your residents!
The following
are some ideas that might help you through the summer, as you get ready
for your new position. Read through the ideas and try the ones that you
think will help you. Of course I recommend that you try them all!
Why
do you want the RA position?
Why did
you apply for this position and why did you accept it? Make a list of
the reasons you applied. If financial reasons are at the top of the list
you may want to reconsider taking the job. You will not be happy if that
is your guiding reason because you will “earn your pay” during
the first month. The expectations and demands of the position are high,
so having reasons above and beyond financial gain will help you to be
successful at the job and to maintain job satisfaction. Of course the
compensation helps but it is not enough.
Often times
RA candidates say they want to be an RA “to help people” or
because they are a “people person”. What does that mean? You
need to define “how” you want to help people. Defining that
will help you identify your goals. Also, what does it mean to be a “people
person”? Most people are to some degree ... but how does that make
you a good RA. Remember, you’ll need more than people skills as
you complete all the administrative details and creative tasks as well
as learning to manage your time.
Start
setting some goals.
During training
you will probably set goals for yourself, your floor and your staff. Starting
to set goals now will help give you direction as you prepare for this
exciting role.
As
you develop your goals, consider the following:
How
do you want your floor to first perceive you? Decide what you
want your first impression to be. This can make a lasting impression
on your residents, especially first year students. Even your room makes
a statement about you. Will you have it set up so it is inviting to
your residents? What do you want to take back with you that will make
residents comfortable? You need to think about how the room can reflect
your personality, yet be neat, inviting and still emphasize academics.
How
do you want your floor to physically appear? Decide what you
want to accomplish with your physical environment. What can you commit
to do to make your floor inviting?
What
specifically do you want to learn from this experience? Define
what the outcomes will be for you by being an RA. This will allow you
to set personal goals.
What
do you want your residents to learn from living on your floor?
While you will further define this at training, you should have an idea
of things you would like them to learn based on your own experiences.
It helps if you know whether you have a primarily upper class or freshman/sophomore
floor. But regardless, there are things common to all communities including,
but not limited to: respect, civility, fun, tolerance and acceptance
and independence. Remember, you are an educator and learning will
occur on your floor - it helps if you provide direction.
Now take
your answers to the above questions and develop some basic goals to start
the year. You’ll be able to come to training prepared with some
ideas and direction.
Check
with your Residence Life Department as to what you can prepare over the
summer.
Before the
semester ended your residence life people may have shared with you things
to prepare over the summer. If no one shared that with you, just give
a call and ask.
Work
ahead this summer by considering/managing the following:
Theme.
Is one set for the campus or hall or can you set one for the floor?
If you can set one it is a good idea to do so because it helps you with
door tags and bulletin boards.
Door
Tags. Almost every school asks RA staff to make door tags/name
tags for residents. Some schools may give you your floor list during
the summer, others wait until you arrive. Even without names you can
make your tags and have them ready for names when you arrive on campus.
Also, find out if you are required to change tags on any kind of rotation.
If so, you may wish to prepare more than one set. Have the tag fit your
theme ... and try to be creative ... and neat. Nothing looks worse than
a tag thrown together without thought. Remember, this is part of what
sets the tone for the year.
Bulletin
Boards - how many, how often? Find out the requirement for
bulletin boards. What kind are you expected to do? If you can define
them, think of your theme and your goals so that the bulletin board
reflects them. If you have more than one, why not have one as fun and
one as educational? Look through magazines, Internet and newspapers
for articles you can use. Start a file so that you have some resources
for throughout the semester. Cut out letters now - and make a lot. By
creating ready to hang bulletin boards you can quickly move onto other
activities with your floor. Remember that your first bulletin board
will set the tone on your floor.
Stall
Journal. Have you thought about a “floor newsletter”?
Many RAs do newsletters that they post in bathroom stalls. Find a creative
name i.e. Stall Journal, Toilet Tidbits, Dear John, and create a welcome
newsletter. Include upcoming programs, study hints, resources and ways
residents can submit comments for future newsletters. This will again
help you meet your goals, making residents feel welcome from the start.
Worried
that you are not creative enough to do all this? Well, you have an entire
summer to work on it. Get a girlfriend, boyfriend, mom, dad, brother,
sister or friend to help. You’ll be surprised how many of theses
people may have some creative abilities! Put them to work. Younger siblings,
nieces and nephews are great for cutting out letters and it makes them
feel good to help you. It will also help your family and friends understand
your new position.
By completing
these tasks you will be well on the road for developing a good foundation
for your community. Once you arrive on campus your training program will
take you to the next step. As the summer comes to an end I would encourage
you to refer to the following essay which is borrowed from Robert Fulghum’s
ALL I EVER NEEDED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN. With a few changes
it reflects what you’ll learn in training. While the advice may
sound elementary it is so true that the basic good values of humanity
are our best guides.
Good luck
as you prepare for your new role. And have fun. This job is no good if
you are not having fun with it!!
Adapted from Robert
Fulghum’s ALL I EVER NEEDED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN
| All
I really need to know about how to make a good floor and what to say
to residents and how I should act I learned in RA training. Wisdom
was not at the top of a mountain but there in an icebreaker with my
staff. These are the things I learned. *Share with your residents.
Be consistent. Don’t yell at people. Put things back where you
found them. Clean up your own mess. Don’t take things that aren’t
yours. Say you’re sorry when you are wrong. Shower early before
problems arise. Teach everyone to flush. Warm cookies and milk is
a good program. Provide a balanced experience - learn some and think
some and draw and paint and dance and play and work some every day.
*Take a nap every day you are on duty. *When you go on rounds be alert,
take your time and don’t go alone if you are afraid. *Be aware
of wonder. Remember the freshmen in your halls: they will test you,
cry and maybe be your friend and nobody knows why, but we were all
like that. *Rabbits, hamsters, white mice and candles must all leave
- just like guests of the opposite sex. *And remember the first word
you learned - LISTEN. *Everything you need to know is in training
somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Counseling
and programming and diversity and sane living. *Take any of these
concepts and apply them to your academic life or your work or your
floor or your college and it holds true and clear and firm. Think
what a better college we would be if we all - the entire campus- had
cookies and milk about three every afternoon and then lay down for
a nap. Or if the entire school had basic policies to always listen
to what each other had to say and to always clean up our own mess.
And it is still true, no matter who you are - when you go into the
halls it is best to work together and be a team. |
About the
Author
Glenda J.
Griffith is the Director of Residence Life at Saint Francis University
in Loretto, PA. She has been the Director for the past 21 years. She first
learned it all in RA training at Carlow College as a Resident Assistant.
She then got her G M. Ed in College Student Personnel Administration from
Indiana University while working in residence life. After two years at
Western Illinois University she moved onto Saint Francis where she was
the co-director of campus life for one year before taking the Director
position.