Working
your RA Magic
By Marci Savage,
Resident Advisor, Rochester Institute of Technology
At 19 years
old I am responsible for assisting 28 young college students. This is
because for the 2001-2002 school year as I am a Resident Advisor (RA)
on the second floor of Baker Hall at Rochester Institute of Technology.
If they have a question I am here to answer it. From roommate disputes
to noise complaints, I handle all of those tasks. If they are sick I make
sure they have everything they need and will go out of my way to get them
food or medicine. I am their friend, mentor, and role model.
The experience
of being an RA has been overall very positive. As with most things in
life it has some downfalls, but the positives have outweighed the negatives.
Some residents do not want to cooperate or participate, but the majority
are very good students that have fun together on the floor.
The main
job of a RA is to build a community where students feel comfortable so
they can get as much out of their year as possible. The best way to do
this is to answer their questions openly and honestly, and to guide them
in the right direction if they have a problem. Also, know the resources
that are available such as counseling centers, nutritionist, career services,
and other helpful services your college might offer.
This is
not only my job but it is also where I live. Many of my residents
have become my friends who just stop in my room to chitchat or to invite
me to events they are attending. My favorite thing to do with residents
is go to Gracies, our all-you-can-eat dining commons. We get into some
very fun discussions while eating and this is the place I get to know
my residents best.
The hardest
part of the job is getting residents interested in going to programs that
are held. I know for me the hardest is to get them to educational programs
about topics such as school, studying, alcohol and sex. They tell me that
after going to class all day the last thing they want to do is learn more.
I try to choose topics that would interest them by asking around and getting
ideas for programs they would want to attend.
The worst
part of the RA position is the paperwork that comes along with it. Room
condition reports, room changes, and incident reports are just a few of
the administrative parts of being an RA. I take them in stride and I do
them right away. Procrastination on such paperwork is never a good idea,
since it will never magically disappear and you will never get anyone
to do it for you.
Make sure
that while being an RA you have fun. All work and no fun makes for a miserable
year. I have had my best attendance at programs that are fun such as Gingerbread
house making/decorating at Christmas, a sign language program in the fall,
pumpkin picking, floor dinners, and a healthy eating on campus program.
The most
important thing to remember: Be there for your residents. Everyone is
busy so do not think it is essential to be on the floor all the time,
but do not leave for long periods of the day. The resident feedback on
my RA evaluations this year was that they wanted me in my room more. I
took that feedback seriously and am trying to arrange my schedule so I
can respond to this need in the future.
The RA position
can teach you and help you improve on important skills that are needed
in everyday life. It sure has for me. Because of being an RA I have learned
conflict resolution, stress control, time management, listening and communication
skills.
Being an RA is what you make of it. If you go into the job with a negative
attitude you will get nothing positive out of it. My advice is to go in
with an open mind and be prepared for anything. Remember that every student
is different and will need you in a different way. Some may not need you
at all.
Just remember
Be
yourself and have fun!
About the Author
Marci Savage
is a first year Resident Advisor at Rochester Institute of Technology.
In addition to being an RA, Marci is also a member of the crew team, who
write sports for the weekly newspaper, and loves being outdoors. She has
one sister who is a senior, also at Rochester Institute of Technology.
Her other hobbies include skiing, running, outdoor activities, and listening
to music. Marci says that, Being an RA has been a great experience
that I would not trade for anything in the world.