Time
Management
By Robin W.
Herod, Jr.
Resident Assistant
Hofstra University
Many people
say that the key and the killer of a R.A. are time. Whether you manage
your time well or not will determine whether you sink or swim. Many of
the resident assistants from my old building, before I applied to the
position, had quit the job because either it was too time consuming or
they had no time at all.
As to time
management, for new and old staff I would advise a couple of things:
- In the
beginning of the semester, try to plan out the weeks or months ahead
so you can get a feel of what is expected.
- If you
find that things have to change, change your schedule accordingly. Do
not over plan your time however, so that you consume all the time in
a day.
- Plan
a free day for yourself. Learn to relax and not to think about your
problems on the days you set aside for yourself.
- Always
remember this, VISIT YOUR RESIDENTS. They are there for you as much
as you are there for them. If you need help on something, see if you
can get help from them, when it is appropriate.
- If you
feel like you are going to panic, take a deep breath, try to be calm,
and think positively. The more positive you are, the clearer things
can be. If all else fails, talk to your peers or your resident director.
Time management
is the key to everything. If you effectively organize things in your life,
from residents to your classes, you'll find that you have the time necessary
to complete the important things in a day.
Starting
with tip number one, if you plan out the months ahead, you can try to
limit things to give time enough for certain situations. If you realize
that you have to work on Saturday, but you have a study group earlier
in the day, you can plan out how long the study groups will be and what
time you have to leave for work.
With tip
number two, if you realize that you have to spend more time than you allowed
yourself on a task, try to modify your schedule and do the other things
that you scheduled for yourself in a shorter amount of time.
The next
one is the one that is most neglected. Giving yourself a free day off
is the most important thing you can do. This will allow you to think of
yourself for a change after hectic times in classes and dealing with residents.
The time you give yourself will allow you to figure out what you have
accomplished and have a time to relax. Some resident assistants go on
and on with the semester without ever realizing that by the end of the
semester when finals come around, they feel so overly stressed about things
that they don't even know what they are stressed about.
Visiting
your residents periodically will show that you care about them. In times
when you need them, they will give you options or give you some help in
things that you have questions about. During my first year as a R.A.,
I needed help with understanding a problem in one of my academic classes.
I went down the hall and spoke to "Melissa" as I remembered during move-in
that she is a math major. She helped me throughout the semester and I
received a higher grade on my math exams.
This last
one is the one that may be most challenging. Usually at the end of the
semester during finals, students in general start to panic. Grades that
are bad, relationships on the rocks or family problems that arise tend
to set students in a panic. They do not know what to do. Some of the results
can be negative and positive. I sometimes feel that I am panicking, but
what I do is first, calm down. Then I try to relax and breathe normally.
Finally, I look at things very optimistically in different situations.
The more positive influence you have on the final outcome on things, the
better it will be.